Hi there… How’s it going? Probably not all that great or you wouldn’t be here looking for help. Well, you’ve come to the right place. Teens have been writing to me since 1997 because they know I give good advice. If you’ve got a problem with friends, so-called friends, a bf/gf, a parent, or anything else that’s confusing… email me. I can help you sort out your feelings. No matter what’s going on, you always have choices. Some choices make things worse. You don’t want to go there. Instead, let me help you figure out your next best move.
In friendship,
Terra (aka Annie Fox)
Annie’s Blog:
"I can't help it if I've got an attitude!"
February 18, 2012
For those who've ever been told you've got a problem with your attitude, read this email I got today. It might help you.
BROKEN HEARTED GIRL: Hey Terra, my bf used to constantly warn me that if I didn't change my attitude he would break up with me. Being the type of person I am, I just disregarded it and thought that he would always be there for me. Well, obviously I was wrong because he just broke up with me! He says he still wants us to be close friends, but I don't think I can take that because I still want to be with him. And what if he gets another girlfriend?! I'm going to be overly depressed like I am right now. So what do I do??
TERRA (aka Annie): Hi Broken Hearted Girl. What do you think he meant when he talked about your "attitude"?
BROKEN HEARTED GIRL: I really dont know. But everyone says that you can tell when I'm on my period because I am literally a "bitch" to everyone. More »
From Terra’s Inbox
“I want to leave the mean girls but part of me doesn't.”Hey Terra, I want to make the change from being in the popular mean girl group to the nice people. The nice people have accepted me but I've seen a few friends from the popular group and I realize it's going to be hard to tell them I want to leave! I have best friends in the non-populars, but I'm starting to freak out because what if when I get back to school I'll see them and be like "I should be with them!" Today at orientation two of the girls were in the corners gossiping and half of me wanted to join them but I pulled away! What should I do?? Nice Bitch |
“Does he like me or not?”Hey Terra, Our family friends have a son who is two years older than me. "Evan" and I have gotten along fine until this summer when our families vacationed together. I think he decided he was seeing too much of me. Now I am having language lessons with him once a week. In front of adults, "Evan" is horrid to me. He calls me mean things and says I'm too young to understand things. Then when we are alone, he FLIRTS with me like there is no tomorrow! It bothers me because 1) I'd like him to pick a side and quit giving me mixed messages, and 2) I'm WAY too young for him to be flirting with me the way he... |
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